Propose with a Rose: Signaling in Internet Dating Markets

Working Paper: NBER ID: w17340

Authors: Soohyung Lee; Muriel Niederle; Hyerim Kim; Wookeum Kim

Abstract: The large literature on costly signaling and the somewhat scant literature on preference signaling had varying success in showing the effectiveness of signals. We use a field experiment to show that even when everyone can send a signal, signals are free and the only costs are opportunity costs, sending a signal increases the chances of success. In an online dating experiment, participants can attach "virtual roses" to a proposal to signal special interest in another participant. We find that attaching a rose to an offer substantially increases the chance of acceptance. This effect is driven by an increase in the acceptance rate when the offer is made to a participant who is less desirable than the proposer. Furthermore, participants endowed with more roses have more of their offers accepted than their counterparts.

Keywords: signaling; online dating; preference signaling; field experiment

JEL Codes: C78; C93; J0


Causal Claims Network Graph

Edges that are evidenced by causal inference methods are in orange, and the rest are in light blue.


Causal Claims

CauseEffect
sending a rose (Y60)likelihood of proposal acceptance (C52)
sending a rose (Y60)success rates of proposals (C52)
more roses (Y70)likelihood of proposal acceptance (C52)
roses (Y60)perceived seriousness of proposals (E71)
roses (Y60)attractiveness of less desirable senders (J79)
roses (Y60)acceptance rates across desirability groups (C52)

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